Chaslyn & Michael

Baltimore, MD - We’ve been together for a little over 7 years and Married a little of 2 years.

How did it start? & What was your first impression of your partner?

Chaslyn: We honestly didn’t pay much attention to each other initially. We had a mutual friend and would see each other in passing. We didn’t really notice each other until I skipped class (College) one day to hang out with our said mutual friend at Mike’s house and we haven’t been apart since.

When did you first know you are falling in love?

Chaslyn: I (Chas) knew when we faced our first crossroads as a couple, within the first 3 months of our relationship, and there was a choice of either breaking up or moving in together, and the thought of him not being in my life felt devastating.

Mike said he knew once he didn’t want me to leave his house. I guess immediately? Lol!

What has been the response from your family and/or friends about your relationship?

Chaslyn: They’re all for it.
They are for it NOW lol, but there was initial hesitation. My (Chas) Dad was not about this life (lol) at first because of the societal pressures or issues we may face, but now he looks at Mike as his son and would come for anyone who has something to say.

Mike’s family was more progressive.

Have you ever received a negative or strange comment as an interracial couple? If so, what was your reaction?

Chaslyn: Yes, we randomly get looks from older people, like 60’s and older, but for the most part not really. Our first comment after starting our YT Channel was “creative” and made us laugh, honestly, but overall not as bad as my parents made me to believe it would be when I was growing up. (They were born in the 50’s pre-integration in Georgia, if that gives you any context.)

Ever tried the cuisine from your partners’ culture? If yes, what is your favourite dish?

Chaslyn: Yes, Mike’s Mom is really healthy and her food is seasoned exceptionally. Her lamb and guacamole is BOMB!

Mike says he likes all Southern cooking lol.

On the Fun side what stereotype(s) have you found to be TRUE and/or FALSE with your partner?

Chaslyn: True stereotypes. White people run towards danger (think horror films); The call of the Outdoors, like wanting to hunt own meat or chop own wood, just DIY outdoorsy lol; Not caring about style / appearance; I don’t really know, Mike grew up opposite of me, so his Hood Card has many of mileage stamps. I grew up in a Jewish part of town :/
Mike: False, white people don’t understand/ feel racism/ get racist acts upon them.

Mike: True, black girls got the head roll when they are mad. They can cook. DON’T TOUCH THE HAIR. Don’t like pumpkin pie nearly as much as sweet potato. No matter what if a black person sees another they gotta give them the head nod to recognize they are there. There are more but Chaslyn would kill me if I kept going. False, the “Angry Black Woman” thing.

What do you think is the key to a strong relationship?

Chaslyn: Communication and NOT pushing the other person’s buttons that you know are there.

What is the best advice you have ever received from your BF/GF/Wife/Husband?

Chaslyn and Michael: LET IT GO!

Check out their vlogs TheBatcheloretteLife. They post their lives and family adventures every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday so be sure to tune in. Head on over to YouTube and subscribe. Oh By the way Mike is really into Minecraft follow him @FEARmig.