This Week Interracial “Chonilla” Couple (06/04/2014)*
Kiara: Tennessee, FL. 20 yrs young
Clint: Virginia, TX. 22 yrs young
Together: We’ve been together 9 months
When, Where and/or How did you meet your husband?
Kiara: We met when Clint came to my company, in the army, he had to present himself to the platoon. I saw his dimple and smile and I knew he was super shy.. Now as for me I’m a loud brave little person who likes to speak my mind.. so later that day he had to see me, because I’m supply and airborne… and everyday he would find ways to talk me and see me. Don’t get me wrong I would do the same.. I would sit at my desk thinking about him or what could I do to be near him.. then one day I told him I’m going to hook him up with girl *wink wink*.. So I got his number from a friend.. Text him too see of he wanted to hang out not telling him it was me.. We lived in the barracks at the time , so I told him to meet me in room 208.. Clint then comes to my room I open the door and he’s blushing and he couldn’t hide.. Then throughout the night it felt like we’ve been best of friends.. You don’t find people that you can be comfortable with, but I did. Week later we started dating, yes I know fast, but I don’t like wasting time nor does he.. Everything was and still today wonderful.. there are times we’re apart in different states but we’re military.. on May 9 2014, Clint and I were at the botanical garden in North Carolina, we walked around because we both love the nature.. You would have thought it was a movie.. flowers everywhere and a swing set with a little pond.. Clint stops the swing gets one knee, I started crying that I gave him the wrong hand, don’t worry I fixed it, and he cried.. You would think we moved fast but love does have set plan for you, if you think your ready take a chance.
What was your first impression of your partner?
Kiara: From me to him : shy and adorable til this day I think of the first time we meet. From him to me : beautiful and smart and clever as he tells me
When did you first know you are falling in love?
Kiara: In Nov 2013 we we’re playing the piano, by the way he’s very very good.. I told him I loved him and was super scared if would say it back or cliche quote awww thanks”.. Of course he said it back we loved each other from the moment we laid eyes on one another.
What has been the response from your family and/or friends about your relationship?
Kiara: They’re all for it. Not gonna lie they said we we’re too young but we knew we were ready and Clint and I feel we made the best decision.
Have you ever received a comment as an interracial couple? If so, what was your reaction?
Kiara: Sometimes but I never let it get me. At times they say you act white so he’s perfect… it’s like if I’m not rolling my neck listen to a song that has the negro, other term, I’m not black enough.. I am proud to be a African American woman with native french in me.. I never react to the looks or voices.. I just say they are jealous and need to realize if they are happy who cares.
What stereotype(s) have you found to be TRUE and/or FALSE with your partner?
Kiara: Dim not for the stereotypes… it’s another word for labels .
Ever tried the cuisine from your partners’ culture? If yes, what is your favourite dish?
Kiara: My husband is a meat eater and I’m more a veggie eater but there is no difference in our taste buds.
If you were asked to give your boo a nickname, what would it be and why?
Kiara: I call him my white bunny don’t know why but he loves it and he calls me his chocolate chip cookie.
What advice would you have for someone who is looking for love or would like to start an IR relationship but maybe hesitant?
Kiara: Don’t go looking for it let come to you may sound clichéd but it’s true.
What is the best advice you have ever received from your husband?
Kiara: Best advice would be don’t hold back give me 200 % never under.
